National Child Abuse Prevention Month:
Building Strong Families Together





A FEW KIND WORDS

We all know that a few kind words can change your entire outlook on a situation, but it can be a challenge to think of positive things to say in the moment. So, we’ve compiled a list of expressions to use in various situations to help parents be their children’s biggest champions. Accept the Words Matter Challenge and start a lifelong habit.
- Words Matter – Words of Encouragement for Children | Family Services (fairfaxcounty.gov)


  • I love you
  • You can do it
  • You are a good person
  • I am grateful for you
  • I am proud of you
  • You are special
  • That was a really good choice
  • Mistakes mean you are trying
  • You matter
  • You are an amazing person
  • Just be yourself

  • You are a creative thinker
  • Do your best
  • I trust you
  • It’s not your fault
  • You make a difference
  • You are one of a kind
  • You are brilliant
  • You have choices
  • You are worthy
  • You were right
  • It's okay to be scared (or sad)

  • It's your body
  • You have a voice
  • Love yourself
  • I see you are trying
  • I believe in you
  • How can we work together to fix this?
  • I am here to listen
  • You are safe
  • It will be okay
  • You are a great helper
  • What a great question/idea


Infographic Courtesy of Child Trends


WHAT FACTORS PROTECT A CHILD FROM RISK OF ABUSE OR NEGLECT?



  • Children’s optimism, high self-esteem, intelligence, creativity, humor and independence, which enhance their coping skills in the face of adversity.
  • Parent's or caregiver’s respectful communication and listening, consistent rules and expectations, and safe opportunities that promote independence.
  • The family’s access to social supports, neighborhood stability and access to safe schools and adequate health care.
  • The child's experience of love, acceptance, positive guidance and protection from a caring adult, which encourages trust that their parents or caregivers will provide what they need to thrive.

  • The acceptance of peers and positive influences such as teachers, mentors and role models.
  • Parents or caregivers who can cope with the stresses of everyday life and have the inner strength to bounce back when things are not going well.
  • Parents or caregivers with a social network of emotionally supportive friends, family and neighbors.
  • Families who can meet their own basic needs for food, clothing, housing and transportation and know how to access essential services such as childcare, health care and mental health services.

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